Healthy Conflict

Many of us will have the same conflict over and over and it hasn’t dawned on us that we are, as Einstein described, ‘using the same thinking to try to solve the problem that we did when we…

What it means to Listen

If you want to listen to me you will need to ‘hold your tongue’. Can you do that? Not only will you need to ‘hold your tongue’ but you will need to hold your energy down, let go…

Communication as Aggressive, Passive and Assertive – What is your Choice?

Most people have a sense that yelling is aggressive, saying nothing is passive and having your say is assertive. While this is basically true I want to add some information to be more specific on what can include…

What is success?

To laugh often and much; To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children. To earn the appreciation of honest critics and to endure the betrayal of false friends. To appreciate beauty; To find the…